Recently I have found that sitting down to make a meal plan ends up with a regular set of meals, so I wanted to try something different. Boy was it a hit, Lil man are all his food as usual, same for Daddy. Coco picked out all the broccoli and ate that first, and Ginja well she are what she felt like before she was up in the kitchen asking for George which happens to be curious George cartoon on netflix. This is the repeat cartoon of the week. For those who don't know Ginja is being referred for autism. At 3 speech is minimal, potty training is a complete regression, meltdowns are frequent and nothing can help her. She has now started telling us no touch, which can rip any parents heart out. She is affectionate on her terms, noises cause her to cover her ears multiple times a day. She will escape anything (safety door covers, double stacked baby gates) and a fascination with lights. This are just a few of what had us urging the doctors that something just wasn't right. I have a friend who has been a huge help through this process, JK has been there as a sounding board for me, she is a mom to three autistic children, we had a play date and she saw the things I saw in Ginja. She has offered so much help and advice. I appreciate being able to text or message her for help, knowing how chaotic her days can get with therapy, and everyday life of her household of 6. So JK when you read this, Thank you for being there. You gave me strength to push back against the doctors and bring out the momma bear and I know how I feel when Ginja is having a hard day, and knowing you face this with each of your children and are still there to help other parents. You are a Super Momma bear. Thank you, those two words can't express the gratitude I have for your friendship. Our next step is our visit with the child and infant development worker on Tuesday, which is the start of our path to answers and help.
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