Tuesday 15 April 2014

Mother Nature



At the beginning of the week we were outside with the kids in t-shirts and shorts cleaning up the garden and post snow melt. Last night it cooked right down and I was out in capris and flats. I had gone out to visit friends and to give my friend a accupressure point massage to attempt to induce labour. She is 40+4 and nothing! So I got home and remembered to turn the heat back on, thankfully because we woke up to Snow! Not the fall on the ground and melt right away snow either. I think Mother Nature is going through menopause!! 

The first picture is yesterday on my way out, I stopped at Tim Horton's and then the second picture is from my bedroom window this morning around 9 am. It snowed all day since I took this picture. I am so ready for Spring. 

Over the weekend we went to friends that live in the country, the kids ran around and played for hours. They came home and slept so good. We have put a double futon mattress in Ginja's room and what a huge difference. She is allowed to have her iPad until she falls asleep so she isn't crawling in with us all night. We have decided we need to pick our battles, I lay awake until I hear that last show fade and  her room go quite. Last night she was up until 3:30 am, but was in her room. 

We have been put in the wait list for services through Ottawa Children's Treatment Centre and also received a referral to a pediatrician in Ottawa to attempt to obtain a provisional diagnosis. I have to pick up our referral letter for a private diagnosis referral from the family dr this week. We have received some push back from them about insurance coverage. For a private diagnosis we are looking at about $2500 out of pocket. Insurance will cover 80% up to a maximum of $1000. Now a portion of the time is strictly with the parents and is billed at about $225 per hour, they want to see us on the first visit for minimum 90 minutes. Our family dr believes it is fraudulent to have my insurance cover that portion and to also have Ginja's portion cover her time with the psychologist. I don't quite understand that personally so I am hoping the paperwork is handled by the paediatricians office. We have been working with our infant and child development worker and also have a home based speech and language program in effect. Ginja has started stringing longer sentences together and has started using 5 word sentences. Ginja will start attending weekly speech and language session with her pathologist in May until about mid to end of June. 

Lil Man received an award at school last week for perseverance and determination. It is good to see he is pushing along as we had some issues with him giving up before. I have to implement our home reading program because the teacher rarely sends homework home, even after being asked for more. I have been looking at homeschooling websites and I want to start challenging him at home. He is very intelligent, just gets bored easily and frustrated when answers don't just come to him. I am extremely pleased with his reading, when he is done his chores he will play with his sisters or read. When we are travelling to visit family he will read in the van. You wouldn't know starting grade 2 that he couldn't read, and now he is reading well past his level. I give all the credit to his second grade teacher Mrs Robillard. She is by far the favorite teacher he has had. She put so much effort into her students, something that is rarely seen now a days. 

Our Coco! She is so full of energy always so happy, and progressing so well. It wasn't until I had her and have been watching her grow and develop, that I realized raising a baby could be so easy! She and Ginja both starting walking around their first birthdays, but I notice Coco talks so much more, is so independant and loving. She adores her big sister and brother. If I could have been guaranteed a pregnancy with no vomiting and a baby exactly like her, I would have a football team! My kids are my entire world and they are each individual and unique. I couldn't imagine our lives without them. 




Wednesday 2 April 2014

Busy Month


March was packed full for this family. Dad  has a work related injury to his neck. Lots of TLC for him, and a long road to recovery. A lot of stuff still happening and a diagnosis of post-concussive syndrome. Attended a few autism related functions over the month. Illness dragged on in the children Coco is on antibiotics now after being sick for almost 7 weeks straight. Daddy bought Ginja an iPad mini and wow what a different child! We have implemented the home speech and language program as well as programming on the iPad and we got a 5 word sentence yesterday super excited! Lil man had some dental work done and was super brave not wanting nitrous gas and only the needle to freeze, much braver than I! To think of it they have never offered me nitrous gas, I could use a good laugh :) We just got the call for an appointment with paediatrician in Ottawa for June, just have to confirm details. In the process for referral to Emerging Minds and during this our family dr just up and decided to close her clinic! So now on the hunt for an autism experienced Dr in the area, as the offered replacement just isn't at the standard for autism care that we need. 

    I have been busy making flowers for the wedding bouquets. I am just getting into the groove and it's all coming along nicely. I started by cutting the fabric I to strips.
As you can see I need a little more pink but lots of creams and whites. From there, I looked through a million and one Pinterest links to find the flower style that I liked and follow some tutorials, then started to branch out with my own ideas. Cut a ton of circles out of the fabric, because most of the flowers you can make from fabric utilize a circle shape. 
A lot of work to make them perfect a few I said no way and tossed them immediately!
I have come to the conclusion I like shabby chic style flowers and roses. I can't wait to finish this project and to share it.